24/7 Attractive Man

Champions of Choice Gold Coach Nolo Talks Social Domination Basics

“Spongebob!”

…is what my close friends call me. “I want that chick!” I look around, “Which one?” He goes on to describe a the girl wit the cute smile in the grey jacket. “Go talk to her” “I cant man,” This girl is sitting not two metres away from us and has somehow immobilized my friend. I laughed and went to go talk to her and her friend cant remember much of what was said we spoke for a bit and after a couple of laughs went back to my friends. My friend never spoke to her that night and on our way home was castrating himself for his inaction. “She was the one man” I couldn’t help but laugh at this, I mean how many nights go down like that? I used to self medicate with a night of binge drinking after a night like this and hate myself for being weak the next morning, not a pretty site. This got me thinking thoughand I figured putting out tips to help guys with that initial conversation with a girl wouldn’t be a bad idea.

I’m Nolo, one of the coaches on 24/7 Attractive Man. If you watched the old Mentorship Program video, that was me who took a chance and tried a distance program miles away with Troy. Now it really feels like the pressure is off when I go out. I know my worth and I have the skills to convey that to women, thanks to bumping into this site.

It’s been a heck of a journey, and I must say all the hard work and the challenges I had as a beginner really paid off in the end. Today I’ll share my best tools to boost your game when you go out in ANY social situation without really being to pressured or fearful.

A 24/7 Attractive man has a lot going for him, he uses his awareness of himsef, the male female dynamics and his awareness of logistics for one simple reason, to make his interactions with women as low pressure as possible. Most of these tools are covered all over the site so take the time out to read em, but I’ll share to you guys the EXACT tools that have worked for me, so get your notepads on!

“Oh shit!” “Whats she gonna say?” ”What if she ignores me?” “What am I gonna say?” “Whats that cool line that worked the other night?” “she’ll never talk to me,” “Wow she’s beautiful!” while all this is happening in our heads we’re clenching up and getting tense like Muhammad Ali’s fist. In some cases we work up the courage, decide FUCK IT and go talk to her.

3…2….1…. GO!

What follows is a short painful conversation, usually one where the guy asks questioins and she (best case scenario) replies politely and once the awkwardness becomes unbearable the guy will be kind to himself and walk away. Or if your one of our brothers out there doing the PUA thing you kick lines until the memory runs out and the tricks have all been played.

My recommendation is stop putting so much pressure on yourself. Somehow. guys, we got it in our heads that in that very first conversation we have to win her over, seduce her senseless and make her want to remove her panties right than and there which isn’t always gonna happen so start by helping yourself from the very beginning.

You have to master Preconceived Seduction (cool term, right? Well it’s exactly what we teach on our Masterclass, and YES South Africa is on the Calendar guys). When you master preconceived seduction, it’ll be relatively easy to work the room socially, make cool friends, and hook that chick even before you even open your mouth!

Tip #1: Pre-party to Relieve Pressure

Come into the venue already having fun with your friends, be talkative be enjoying yourself, you put a lot of pressure on yourself when you show up to a place and try to amp yourself up, there’s too many variables that you cant control inside that could affect your mood one way or another. So do it before start with a pre party or fun hang out spot you’ll feel better and already be enjoying yourself by the time your there. Just be careful don’t loose that energy when your coming from the first place to the new place if you do what was the point?

Tip #2: Placement!

Another important item is Placement.  Place yourself strategically in the venue at a spot where you can see the whole place and the whole place can see you. The point of this is when you just show up from nowhere and talk to a woman you’re a complete stranger. We call it the blind side and you’ll get instant rejection and repulsion from that.  We wanna avoid that, after all we where all trained not to talk to strangers from a young age. This serves to make you familiar, to a certain exent, to women who you might want to go talk later. This is an opportunity even before you’ve said anything to go from from being some dude, to the cute guy having fun with his friends over there.

Tip #3: Fit into the Niche

One that’s ignored and is super crucial is know the niche of the place: know the culture, dress in a way that the guys that you already seee doing well in that niche do well in. There’s a fantastic post on Status Game that emphasizes the benefits of Niche Theory and greatly suggest you check it out.

Tip #4: Ally yourself with Cool People and Show it Via Line of Sight

Hang out with cool fun people. You wanna be good at this stuff don’t only talk a good game, LIVE a good game. You can try convince a women with a lot of talk and she can think your lying or talking shit but when she sees it for herself, she’s easier convinced that you are a guy of value the cool fun guy that you say you are. This is the suff attraction is made from gentlemen. This is why we do line of sight (Definition: conveying her our fun traits visually from a distance). Ignore at your own peril.

Tip #5: Aim for the High Point

Now once you’ve done the above and you decide to go after that cutey you’ve been trading glances with.Don’t overwhelm yourself trying to perform miracles in that first conversation, rather aim for a HIGH POINT. (Definition: A point at which things are going well, and you get something like a chuckle or something, you’ll learn to spot them with experience) either you lead her or leave.

After we first talk I like to leave and go back to my friends and come back later. That shows her I’m not needy and allows her to see me with other people bein my great self in case for some reason she hasn’t spotted us alread. I some back again with a lot less pressure and full confident she’s witnessing my attractive qualities.

There are plenty of variables that work in 24/7 Attractive Mans favour and we’ll be sharing them all over the site.So keep checking and keep reading. In the mean time try these out and let us know how it went either by commenting here or on the info packed forum. Oh, and if you want some basics of getting some iron balls, then read our article on beating self-sabotage.

Nolo

Champions of Choice Gold Coach

PS: For my fellow 24/7 Attractive newbies and Champions of Choice members, don’t forget to check out my site, http://championsofchoicesite.com and sign up for our free Gold Coach Newsletter. this is where I’ll be giving out my best field adventures to learn from, as well as the lessons I took from learning and getting better at the 24/7 Attractive System. It’s also the best spot to learn from the non-gurus who are killing it in the field, like my fellow Gold Coaches Dan, Tuan, Teddie, Nolo, Shane and Clement. I really think you’ll like the non guru atmosphere our newsletter will bring.

PPS: if you have any questions, feel free to email them to me at nolo@championsofchoicesite.com. I can’t promise I can answer all of them the soonest, but I can compile all your questions and put up a Mailbag thread on the COC site.

PPPS: SOUTH AFRICA! I’m glad you guys are loving the site. Soon we’ll have free seminars down there, and definitely a Masterclass!

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