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How To Beat the Nice Guy Syndrome NOW

Nice Guys Finish Last, but its a stereotype. The Nice Guy Syndrome is actually a projection of core values that don’t help you.

On this post we’ve got some realizations, some personal details, and most importantly, some powerful Core Values to adopt to get you out of your “Nice Guy” rut. If you’re not a nice guy and you still want to improve you should read this article too.

What most guys fail to realize is that the cause of the Nice Guy Syndrome is VERY deeply rooted. It actually comes from upbringing and the chain of events that happen as a boy grows up to be a man.. or well.. nice guy.

Here’s an all too common scenario in a man’s life:

Mom says “that’s BAD!”

It started when you attempted to get some cookies from the cookie jar.

It happened next when you hit some kid in the playground with your Tyco truck. While it was an attempt from your mom to take control of you, you associated things you ought not to do as “bad.” As a kid, there were only two words that mattered, “good” or “bad.”

As you get older you’re told in one way or the other by your parents that:

“It’s bad to disrespect women. You have to treat her like a lady. You can’t talk smack to her. That’s BAD”

And while you love and respect your mother so much, you start thinking the same for all other women. It’s time to be the “GOOD GUY.”

I was that guy. I followed those rules, and it got me nothing.

I was always playing it safe growing up, so I always had crushes, but never had the balls to do anything about it. I would always look up to my classmates during 5th or 6th grade, who, with a simple surge of boldness, like switching seats and getting beside the girl they like, proved to be very, very successful. They bombed a few times when they advanced onto women, but enough risking reaffirmed their intent and in the end they had the girls they wanted.

Wash rinse repeat for a few more years….

The older I got the more reality came knocking at my doorstep. My high school life started to become like the twilight zone. I couldn’t understand why, I followed ALL THE RULES, wanted people to like me, and was upfront genuine (or that’s what I thought, I found out I just wanted to say what I thought people wanted to hear), and somehow the jerks, who failed classes, came late (in style), were just humorous and spontaneous (often I thought were insulting the girls) had much more success with me in getting the girls. They were just attracted to them off the bat!

I even remember, the girl that I had super dibs on in high school, after me asking her to the prom a few weeks early, dropped ME a few days later after SAYING YES for a no-good, jerk of a guy!

I was crushed.

I couldn’t consolidate that thought at all, because in my mind I had a division between being a “good guy” and a “bad guy.” To me he was a bad guy. A jerk, a guy who didn’t care, a guy who thought life was not to be taken seriously, and to him it was just a play ground. I thought that when it came to the nice guy vs the jerk, that I would actually WIN.

Little did I know that those were the qualities that still attract women TO THIS DAY

My upbringing had told me to do all these respectful things. With that I cared too much of what people thought of me. Again, I played it safe, and told people what I thought they wanted to hear.

I didn’t see my moments day to day, but train stations to the next level. Wrong way of thinking. These “jerks” were enjoying hanging out in the train station while my mind was thinking about leaving. They were in the now and the present, Mentally, I was in the future.

And yes, I paid dearly for it. No girls, tons of masturbation in high school, and absolute cluelessness on everything.

I’m glad that I nipped the bud when I left high school. THAT changed things.

When I got to college I felt a sense of freedom from my old life, and the measures I implemented made me accept myself for who I am. I adopted the SAME Core Values you’re going to learn at the end of this article and put them into motion.

Automatically girls were more open to me. They were more comfortable with opening up and talking about all sorts of stuff. As time passed on, they were becoming more sexually open. I handled it well too. I didn’t classify it as being good or bad in my head. Before I knew it, I had a girlfriend.

I remember my first ever hot makeout was at the library museum. It was so hot, we fell on the floor, and didn’t care at all. This was the first time I felt I started living those porn movies I used to dream about.

A few days later I’m getting the best sex of my life on more than several occasions. At one point, she was giving me head in a public bus, and she said “you are baaaaad” and after that a switch clicked on my head. My answer to her was “Thank you. I am bad. You like bad.” In which she totally agreed before she proceeded to give me insane head and swallowed all my cum. I was 18 years old.

How I just acted does NOT mean I’m a bad person. I took care of her with my utmost love and care, became an older brother to her siblings, and even helped her Dad whenever he needed to.

Fact of the matter is…

Women LOVE SEX, KISSING, CANOODLING, AND ALL THE SEXUAL STUFF YOU CAN THINK OF.

(even anal)

Have you read the recent hundred something covers on Cosmopolitan Magazine for the last decades of you being alive on this planet? Here are some headlines that millions and millions of women continue to learn from like you reading this site. These articles did NOT come by accident. These are based on the demand of the women that support it so you should be aware that this exists!

Here are some headlines:

“BAD GIRL SEX… 75 Tricks For Nights When You Want to Be Naughtier”

“The Sex Angle that Intensifies Female Pleasure”

“Sex During Your Period…It’s SO Worth it..”

So yes, women SAY that they want to find a nice guy, but by God man, look at the mounting evidence in front of you! If the overwhelming majority of women want sex this bad and are willing to browse for tips and tactics to nail you, then why the heck aren’t they sexing you???

The Reason THEY are not giving that “love of sex” to YOU is because you’ve put up this veil of dishonesty by appearing as this guy who has such moral issues with sex that you’d rather not be up front about it .

Instead of being normal… with a good and bad side to show you picked one because of your fear of rejection. This creates a thought BIAS with women, thus making her NOT want to be sexually honest with you because she fears getting rejected.

Its important for you to ELIMINATE the good and bad frame of things if you want to have that “flow” when it comes to meeting women

Here’s are my Core Values when it comes to breaking through the Nice Guy Syndrome:

The Nice Guy Liberator Core Values:

I. I am open to new things, sexually.

II. People are innocent until proven guilty. I don’t cut the line between good and bad.

III. Moral High Horses are for Institutions. Women I Attract are in the Real World, Therefore I will drop the high horse and be open.

IV. As far as I know, I am a mixture of good and bad, it’s what makes me human and I have no problem with it. Sometimes I am an asshole, a dousche, a jerk, but in some cases I am charismatic, a good listener, inspiring, and friendly.

V. Women Want Sex, Bad Girl Sex, and all that Baaaaad Stuff in Bed. (even anal)

The duality and human-ness amounts to something very, very attractive and honest.

If you want to get good fast NOW, then one of the first steps is that you better remove this Good versus Bad frame in your head immediately, and just accept your human nature, (and others) as it is with COMPLETE HONESTY.

Troy

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