24/7 Attractive Man

The Instant Date – Should You Do It?

Some of you guys might be into the day time stuff, which quite frankly I’m starting to like a whole lot lately since I’ve come back from hitting on some suburb chicks in Chicago, so I decided to make this Sunday article a great time to learn MORE stuff that works, courtesy of 24/7 Attractive Man.

If you’re afraid to go to bars and clubs and meet women there, or you’re an avid day walker who spends time in parks, downtown coffee shops, and shopping malls, then the instant date is definitely for you. I’ll also be sharing more of my day time secrets on the Champions of Choice August Pack, which releases on the 15th.

On this article, I’ll be going over what an instant date is, what are the factors that make it perfect for meeting women in the daytime, and how to actually pull one off.

“Troy, What Exactly is an Instant Date?”

An Instant date is a date you literally make “on the spot” when you’ve reached a high point in the conversation with a woman in the day time, and one of your next best options is to lead it somewhere. It’s quite fun because it starts up the commitment wheel and makes her more familiar with you, and it can be a high because normally guys don’t think they can just pick up women from a book store, park bench, or even the street.

Now while I see Instant dates as a form of escalation, I certainly don’t see it as a  main tool for sexual vibing or anything close to that. It’s that extra time window when I can start pulling off the commitment wheel, and more importantly, take the chick to an suitable environment for me to inject my core values into the conversation (most day time venues are distraction-free anyways).

Learn My 5 Basic Tips You can Use to Get Your Own Instant Date

Tip 1: Concentrate on Letting Her Know Your Dimensions

Because most day time conversations with women usually start with “hi” or asking for directions, or just making an observation, I’m not really going to go into that. In the daytime, the content of conversations can be initially based on the first thing you say, but honestly, once you’ve injected your dimensions, its an easy transition out of that context.

In the 24/7 Attractive Man System, “Dimensions” mean the sides of your identity. The difference in the day time is that women totally don’t know you, or expect you coming. So, to not make things awkward or drag things to the Dilutent Effect, make sure that you have a firm command of WHO YOU ARE before you even go out there and talk to women.

Make sure you have short, and not too detailed sentences telling her about yourself. Say you’re an architect and she’ll get it. Tell her you’re going for a jog because you love the weather today and she’ll get it. Tell her you’re here to browse for new books… she’ll get it. No need to explain too much, but as I’ve said, you gotta get this stuff out first.  Have at least 3 things about yourself already sorted out to say if you’re a complete beginner.

Tip 2: Have a Definite Time Limit For Yourself

I always let women know in the conversation that I was just dropping by to check out a new book I saw online or I was in the middle of my jog. The last thing you want to do is appear like you actually planned out this day time thing.  The main goal in the conversation is to go for one or two high points anyways. You’re not going to fuck her in the day time (although I’ve done and seen it done, it’s not as consistent) so it all boils down to a date later or… you guessed it. The Instant Date.

Tip 3: Work on Relatability

Use some conversational techniques we teach like the Double Relate, and Use some Humor if you want. Learning to tell Fascinating Stories like what we teach at ICF also apply. Women in the day time have their shields down and actually are more motivated to interact because they’re alone and not with their friends who they chat with a lot. The more relatable you are, the more she’ll open up and be comfortable around you.

Here are some DR examples:

“Yeah, the city is really nice. I don’t usually go down here because it takes me a couple of train rides, but when the weather is really awesome, it puts me in a good mood.”

“I really love the hustle and bustle lifestyle here, but sometimes it’s too fast for me. I work here but I live in the suburbs. I like spending my weekends there trying out a wine bar or two, its more relaxed and homey.”

“Jogging here is awesome. I’m not quite sure I’m on my peak condition because her I am panting with my calves burning, but I’m sure if I visit this park more I’ll get it down.”

“I’m more of a biography type person, but if at least 5 people recommend a fictional book to me, hey why not. It’s good to work the imagination every now and then.”

Again, you want to work the conversation based on the context, but I’m giving you guys some examples in case you meet women downtown, like in Chicago, Singapore, New York, or various parts of Europe.

Tip 4: Watch for the High Point

Okay, now we’re talking. Guys, a daytime conversation does not last more than a few minutes. Remember that you already put a time limit on yourself, and its already a GIVEN that she’s got one as well. So, be aware of that and work the conversation until you’ve hit the high point (See Definition). When you do hit the high point, you need to…

Tip 5: Ask for Her Logistics, and if it’s Clear… then Go on an Instant Date!

Ask her on what her plans are for the next 10 minutes or so, and then if she has none, then suggest a cool spot you actually researched on (I personally use YELP for researching) and bounce there. Congratulations! You’ve got yourself an Instant Date within 5 minutes of conversation with a chick.

When you’ve got her on an Instant Date, your best bet is to solidify the interaction using Conveyance Stories as well as Core Values techniques that we teach at Instant Connections Formula to drive the last nail in the coffin.

I suggest try to get an Instant Date if you’ve never done it. I guarantee that it will shatter some realities if you actually experiment and use the techniques I described above, and more importantly it’s a rush!

Troy

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