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Instant Attraction

Not getting this look from women AT ALL? Well, shit man you have to read and utilize what's on this article NOW!

Instant Attraction is something that has hooked curious men in the dating community for years. Does it really happen? Should it be a goal to attain? Do I have to pick up women? What should I do when I get it? This article of mine sets the record straight on whether its a myth or not, and how to get instant attraction if you believe in it.

Being trained in the 247 Attractive Man system feels great: Its great to go out, get into line of sight, almost do nothing and magnetically draw in some curious women or even have them approach you at some point. Almost everyone that’s truly trained in this system has learned that. It takes a bit of getting used to, but if you are willing to fit the mold it works out great.

If you’re into the intermediate level of the system, this should be something you’re constantly working on. This stuff coupled with a few special skill sets eventually leads to the chess game, that eventually leads to the “do nothing” method later on.  But if you’re just starting or heading to intermediate, you must understand what I’m about to teach you.

What are the Ingredients of Instant Attraction? Here are the Big Three.

Swagger comes from Archetype. Add being seen and its Game Over!

The First Ingredient of Instant Attraction is Archetype

I released a premium audio in the past that I believe was way ahead of its time called Prospecting. Even in our yearly Lifestyle Retreats, I talk about how women have certain expectations of who they want to date… in terms of what their “look” is like and what scene they seem to be involved in. This is why women seem guarded by their friends all the time; just like anything they have filters as well. So, if you’re NOT getting that instant attraction AT ALL then you may want to consider if the look you’re projecting matches the look the women you want expect.

This is a tough pill to swallow if either a) you don’t have an established look or b) you’re a generic guy.  This is WHY Pick up artists also think they have to “work” for attraction; they have to “work” to get the hook in a conversation and then realize there was no instant nor medium-term attraction. Why? They never looked the part. Go figure.

Before anything guys, remember that you have to be “in her radar” first. So, what do you do to achieve that? You create a homing beacon so they can zero in on you. Having the right “look” or archetype does that. Currently I am working with my intermediate clients on making sure they have that area down.

The Second Ingredient of Instant Attraction is Vibe

Does it look like they're having fun? No scripted lines please folks. Do it 100% spontaneous and genuine.

There’s a difference between a guy that looks too serious and a guy that is having fun. I always teach my beginner clients to enjoy the moment and that’s what basically cultivates a good vibe. This, surprisingly, is something that has been tough to develop with guys who are largely introverted. It can be done but it needs time and really being around the right people or scene.

Another thing that cultivates vibe is your willingness to socialize with people. In most other dating communities, guys are taught to “pick up” women, and are given an elaborate set of openers, scripted lines and stories to tell that when they get there, it causes what I call a VIBE SHUTDOWN. You may also call this analysis and paralysis. By the time you’ve thought about your opener and are doing it, people see that you’re not spontaneous enough and the reactions are lackluster because pick up openers come out in-genuine. Focus on the fun and you’ll draw in women trust me. Want fun friends? Join 247 Attractive Man you’ll see that its night and day compared to any other social group you’ve surrounded yourself with.

The Third Ingredient of Instant Attraction is CREDS

The perfect example of creds? Look at Entourage; Even the gay agent in the suit (Lloyd) fits this posse perfectly.

Going out alone? That’s something I used to hear a lot from the Pick Up community days of 2005-2006 and its become a relic of the past. It used to be really big and was asked about in nearly every forum out there when I used to browse them.

I never really understood why this was such a hot topic back then, but I realized after a good 3-4 years there that pick up guys really don’t have anyone legitimate to even hang out with. They got no cool friends or connections or friends in high places. Matter of fact, no one would want to hang around with these guys! (not even the valet guy) I remember even Shane Groove telling me “dude, honestly if this was in real life I would never even deal with these cats…” referring to the pick up guys in his area. Now if he ever did, those guys would have to leech off Shane’s creds.

Point is, women will always look for creds, like say, who you’re with. Any incongruencies there would destroy instant attraction. I remember walking down the street in Europe a few years ago with Julez and some clients and 2 beautiful blondes just stopped and asked us where we were going. The instant they scoped out our un-archetyped students… “where are you guys going” instantly turned into “weeeeellll… we’reeee going the opposite wayyyy….” This also happened more than 3 years ago in Canada, where our crew drew in several ladies and it was going well until one of our clients rolled in with an orange vest-looking shame of a fashion statement.

This was a Facebook Survey thing a girl did for one of my boys. I like!

Now, if you have an equal weighting of the three, then you can bet that almost every night you go out WILL HAVE at least a couple instant attraction moments. Expect women to position themselves close to you, approach you, or in my buddy’s case, GRAB YOU while you’re out and about. I wouldn’t consider this my definition of solid game but it actually helps because this stuff gets your foot on the door step or in some cases, way past that.

The downside of instant attraction? You have to be READY to go through these two key things:

a) Tests

b) Green Lights

This week we interview my buddy Don who had a one-of-a-kind experience with women (glad I was there to see it) on the last Dallas Private Instruction Camp that pretty much sums up what I’m talking about. Never did we see a hot chick give us so much shit over the weekend. We really didn’t expect her to fall for him that hard only a few days later. Oh, and it started with “here, get my number….”

Expect that on the next Troy and Henry Show this week… oh and don’t forget for the first three months of 2012 we have Private Instruction slots open (upon request), an Alumni Weekend in Texas, an almost-sold-out Lifestyle Retreat (Feb 15-28), and a Singapore Masterclass.

Oh, and if I don’t post anything for the next 4 days (highly unlikely since I booked myself into a hotel to finish my books), then Happy Holidays to you and your families from 247 AM.

Troy

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