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Troy Dizon’s Lifestyle Retreat Blog Part 1 – Building Desire is King

Cheers from the Sunny side of the Planet,

If you’re a 247 Attractive Man reader, client, or fanatic, then you probably are missing me right now.

Imagine, no daily emails, no crazy minute-by-minute updates on my Twitter, no Facebook messages either to my inner circle and Platinum clients. I must be missing. Nope, I’m just on the bi-annual Lifestyle Retreat.

So, what have I learned so far? My personal biggest learning on this retreat is that its really SSDD (Same Sh*t Different Day). Really. After teaching back to back Masterclasses on top of a well-planned and newly revamped retreat schedule, I’m really convinced that all women want are the Attributes.

(Click Here to Catch Up on what those Attributes are if you missed out on them)

No amount of “High Value” information, or “hooking statement” or “hooking joke” or “hooking routine” can get a woman to DESIRE a man. It’s one thing to react to a guy positively, or even give him the phone number, but to desire him… that’s the goal really, isn’t it?

Because truth is, (and a hard truth) beyond just a few casual conversations, it could get murky in there. There are lots of interactions between men and women but the process of them getting together is filled with a thousand possible detours depending on three things:

1) Their DESIRE and INTENT to see one another,

2) Their READINESS or POSITION in life (or their disposition towards dating), and

3) Their LOGISTICS

If you have actual dating experience or have actually tried pursuing a girl, then you know that if you didn’t get together it falls into either one of these three MAJOR things. Either she really didn’t want you (or want you THAT bad), she wasn’t ready to date, OR the logistics prevented you two from ever meeting or hooking up.

For most beginners, I’d like you to shift your paradigm into BUILDING DESIRE from a woman to ensure consistent success with women. See, if you’ve been clueless all these years and have been reading countless pick up books and audio cd’s (maybe including ours), then you’re missing the point: You have to make her DESIRE YOU to make it work.

How important is building desire? Well, for one, it not only ensures your success in meeting and attracting women, but ensures your ability in keeping them as well. Because God knows, once you run out of the clown routines, there’s nothing left other than who you REALLY are. So just skip the BS and work on who you are versus what you can do with women.

Now assuming you can build desire… from there you can only hope that she’s in the right disposition (#2) to date, because she could have a few issues – ex-issues are really common; not ready for a commitment issues are there as well.

…other than that, if she DESIRES YOU, then she will help you MAKE THE LOGISTICS WORK. I’m sending a transcript of one of our Retreat Clients who is now moving up on quality and we’ll show you that building desire in a woman will make her WANT to see you and make time to see you. This is what I meant when I made the Jerry Mcguire reference, “help me help you” a few years ago.

So, what will make her desire you? THE ATTRIBUTES of course.

Nothing makes a girl want a man other than Leadership, Unshakability, Fun, Comfortable Under Your Own Skin, and Consistency. Actually, just take 3 out and concentrate on the top 2: Leadership and Fun. I can say from personal experience of close to 9 years of heavy dating (successful dating) that MOST WOMEN just want a guy who’s a straight up Leader (in action and position) as well as someone who’s FUN.

I can go into case study after case study of our own successes and others. It really does boil down to these two.  No woman can deny what I said, because nearly every woman I’ve encountered in this planet has told me this personally. Most of them even ask me if I know any “friends” who are exactly like that.

So, just like what I’ve been drilling in the heads of our guys here in the Lifestyle Retreat as well as the previous Masterclasses, the first thing you’ve got to build on is Leadership – whether its the act of leading her and/or getting into a position in life that makes you a leader.

Then, on the lifestyle end, make sure that your week is filled with activities that AMUSE YOU. Over here on the Retreat, I’ve been showing my clients what its like not to have a monotonous, boring life…. and how a fun-filled lifestyle just REVS UP your game because you’ve got genuine material to suck her into your world and your life. Matter of fact, we’re doing a mega laser tag fest on Thursday with the crew. Most guys who don’t have a fun lifestyle usually are the ones with the “what to say next” problem by the way.

The Lifestyle Retreat by the way is a bi-annual event we hold in Manila, Philippines that spans 2 1/2 weeks. It’s a combination of a hard-core continuous learning program as well as a fun vacation filled with life lessons and unforgettable experiences. To book the next one in October or if you have any questions on the retreat, email me at troy@247attractiveman.com with the Subject line “Lifestyle Retreat” and I will get back to you soon.

Cheers from that Boyband looking photo,

Troy

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