There’s a type of guy that I know is always around me, whether you’re a guy I meet socially, a current client trying to get better, a Champions of Choice subscriber, or a guy who’s lurking around 247 AM waiting for the right time to come into the fray.
I call em “poachers.”
These are guys that don’t have the balls, the will, nor the know-how to go for women that they want. Most of them run their lives hoping they can find a woman that’s technically a loner, and subsequently “poach” them with the bare minimum of game. Its like waiting and plucking out a woman you find randomly who isn’t really awesome at all.
More info about Poachers: These guys get excited by the prospect of a woman that’s pretty vulnerable – no consistent social lifestyle, forward-moving attitudes, or methods of improvement. Add the Virgin thing and they get fucking wild.
What they’ll never do though, is go after women that are the OPPOSITE OF THIS. Poachers are SHIT SCARED of women who are confident, have a sense of identity, shit to say, have a great rap sheet and are way more attractive physically.
See, women who are completely confident roll in packs. They attract each other because a group of women ALWAYS has a power base. Its a place of comfort and discomfort, where there’s a safe feeling in a pack, and its uncomfortable too because women in a group are subconsciously in some competition. The bottom line is, they’re much better than most women and are literally tougher to crack.
Now for guys that are living mediocre and are looking for some magic pill things to “momentarily” improve themselves, they will NEVER be able to enter this game. They will look at these women from afar, rate them as “9′s or 10′s,” and from there literally judge them and call them the B-word upon any sign of rejection or flaw they see.
Trust me, I know how this goes. You can only judge when you’ve got a huge force field preventing you from making a move. By habits, they do things that prevent them from getting into the game, not paying attention to their image and appearance, not “upgrading” their lifestyle or social circles, and simply are stuck doing eccentric things very few people care about.
What happens from there? They “poach.” The only option from here is waiting and finding a girl that literally is average in appearance (if cute, considered lucky), has very few friends, does not have much social awareness, and is not forward-moving.
For these poachers, meeting a woman like that is so awesome, because its here that their natural paternal instincts can run wild. As men, we all want to be mentors, teachers, leaders…. but if in a man’s daily life he’s really NOT such a man, the only time he can feel that way is when he’s leading a NOBODY. Yeap, you heard me, a nobody. It sounds bad hearing this but if you’ve ever been in this position I’m sure you’re super ecstatic because you get to “teach” your girl. Its quite normal but then again its not normal when she literally has nothing to teach you.
I bumped into this guy that had a shit ton of money, and he thought that money and vast experience in his career field ALONE would get this girl he’s been chasing for years. He said he wants to mentor her, teach her the right things in life, but at the same time would tell me that until he finds the right girl, he will still remain overweight until he has a reason to change.
See this is what I mean. This guy does NOT want to enter the competition. He doesn’t have the balls, the will, or the know-how to enter the high-stakes game of getting the woman he wants. He wants to remain mediocre and is waiting to “poach” for a woman who has nothing and he is expecting her to drool all over his money and experience. This will NOT work for a woman who is high-quality.
A high-quality woman has OPTIONS. She is always presented with different guys who are at the top of their game. These guys come in different shapes and sizes, and have many things to offer. She literally has the right to choose because she has a lot to offer back as well. She does not need a mentor completely. She can do things for herself and needs a guy to have the attributes to inspire her. But she does not need any hand out. Trust me when I say, this is the best woman to have and the easiest to be with in a relationship.
But again, if you just want to work on one area of the game and you want to “poach” the nobodies… good luck with that. To me, that’s not true success with women. For if you’re STILL wondering and wondering from afar when it comes to women you want, you literally need to get into the high-stakes game. Learn it, and live it. It will open doors for you.
Listen, you can’t grow with a person if you’re not grown up yourself. Add a girl that isn’t really grown and you have a double negative. Its just a recipe for mediocrity. Join 247 Attractive Man, and lets reverse this and get you on the right path.